For the past four years on the 4th of July, I have driven down to Nolensville, TN to watch the fireworks.  I had an Aunt and Uncle that lived there all their life and I use to visit them often as a child.  They have since pasted, but it is still such a nice little country town.
I found myself sitting in the local softball field parking lot the first year and watching what appeared to be two families "fighting" it out for the best display.  I just sat back and enjoyed; no crowds, no loud music, no commerialism.  I have returned every year since and more families have joined in the "battle".  I consider this my little secret for the best fireworks display in town.
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john@camperjohn.com